Christmas Eve, the most important day in Sweden. The celebrations are formal, and last all day, well into the night. That's not to say it isn't a fun time.
I think it's best described in pictures.
Even though the house is well furnished, a cupboard or attic is opened and more furniture magically appears to accommodate the 26 people expected later in the day. Everyone just swoops in and suddenly an entire party is set up!
Getting ready for the party takes up the morning. The cat is not allowed on the table, BTW.
All over Sweden, we could see the advent candles shining in the windows, day and night. They also use a lot of die cut stars with lights peeking through the holes, and straw stars with lights. The effect is stunning in the gray daylight. There are also Amaryllis bulbs everywhere, in beautiful Swedish glass vases, or in moss arrangements. They are beautiful throughout their entire life span, and then get planted in the garden.
The candy table. All of the containers are filled with homemade chocolates, caramels and spiced nuts. Except for the red box of Julie's favorite, Julskum.
All of the decorations are so beautiful, and authentic. We really saw the difference between our plastic overabundant decorations and the Swedish way. Everything has a meaning to the family, and the decorations are tucked into the corners and shelves. Candles are always lit, in every nook and cranny. There is a feeling of bringing the outside in, and then making it sparkle with light.
It came time to visit Goran's memorial, and light candles there for him.
There are posts that spin, with plaques on them. As well as a field for the ashes of those who wish to be cremated. Goran was placed near the golf course, he loved to golf.
I wasn't prepared for the flood of emotion, I guess I hadn't really said goodbye. Carin was very sweet, and comforted me while I had a good cry.
Meanwhile, the girls lit candles,
and had a quiet moment of reflection.
These are definitely strong and proud Viking women. Yet, the loss is still very new, and the wound to their hearts is raw.
We love them so much, if I could take the pain for them, I would.
